Finding the light or dress at the end of the tunnel

I know 2020 has been like the year that doesn’t quit but we are gonna find the light girlfriends. So are you a procrastinator or haven’t found THEE dress at your price point. Well guess what because soooo many weddings have been postponed or canceled or all in all pushed back these dresses are dropping…

Ummm Rona Girl you ain’t invited to the wedding

So we are living in unprecedented times. The last wedding I went to was earlier this year in Jamaica. This was actually at the very beginning of what we now know as Covid 19. I remember when we were heading home around feb 4th getting alerts from united giving out warnings from certain travel areas…

Im Back Ya’ll- Don’t be petty betty

So I took a slight hiatus mainly because I had a LOT going on, from a new job to trying to gather content. Well, I am back with some-more unsolicited advice. So today I want to discuss realistic expectations. I recently had someone tell me that they went with a friend to look for wedding…

Creativity doesn’t have to be hard just do you boo

Over the years I have been to a whole bunch of weddings. I joke and say I am a retired professional bridesmaid ( no for real, ive participated in several).  I may not remember the whole day for each of my friends but there are pieces that stand out that I will never forget and…

Meaningful Guest List

I was sitting on the couch and watching 4 weddings, the competition show on TLC about 4 brides go to each other’s wedding and vote/ judge each other and the one with the highest score gets a honeymoon; this led me to think about the guest list. I thought to myself, man I would have…

Bride vs Bridesmaid…. you ain’t invited

Sooooo y’all I’m pretty sure I’ve said that every scenario is not something I’ve experienced, so yea this is one of those posts lol. As a retired bridesmaid, I can’t even say I’ve ever dealt with a lot of madness, but when a friend told me about this situation I was like OH you got…

Hair toss check ya nails, Bridal party and hair

Y’all like my Lizzo quote huh? Lol. On your special day, the last thing you want is for your bridal party to be looking a mess on your day cause girl bye those pics are forever. So let’s sit and think about the venue, time of day, and most importantly location. So my example, I…